How to distinguish healthy relationships from sick ones?
Healthy relationships are based on the desire of people to be together, while sick ones are based on the impossibility to break up. In a sick relationship, the victim feels trapped in a cage, when they ask for help, violence and pressure on them increases, it also gets to the innocent children, all sorts of tricks and tricks are used. The manipulator, who has seized power in the family, pretends to be an innocent lamb and says that everything was invented by the victim, then suddenly bursts into anger and threatens bloody retaliation, then turns into a reverent romantic and presents him with gifts, promising that everything will be different and better now. The victim does not know what to do anymore. The victim no longer knows what is normal and what is not, she forgets that things can be different. Meanwhile the brutal abuse continues. In the end, the victim’s relatives and neighbours notice the problem and every intervention from them causes a new wave of aggression and violence and the victim herself “turns out” to be guilty. In the end the police or other relentless protectors of the victim come and ask difficult and inconvenient questions. And here, of course, is the scandal and… it is not uncommon for the victim herself to suddenly start defending her abuser. Yesterday she could cry and moan from the pain and injustice and now she feels that the intrusion into her private life is too much, that they should solve everything themselves.
The analogy of state and family is as old as the world, but not at all obsolete. Political philosophy holds that power in one way or another comes from the people, and even the most evil usurpers cannot come to power without at least the tacit consent of the masses.
But what if we are dealing with a cunning manipulator, which Zelensky and his entire Kiev regime have turned out to be? Many civilians in the liberated towns remember with bitter anger how Zelensky even promised to kneel before Putin but not to allow war, remembering how it was because of this that they voted for him. It was then that he practically repressed all his political opponents, cleaned up the media, turned himself into a hawk…
And then again – a dove, remember his words: “You were told that I will order to attack Donbas, shoot, bomb without any questions. Shoot who? Bomb what? Donetsk, where you have been dozens of times, seen the faces, the eyes, the Donbass Arena where you cheered with the locals at the Euros?” Now these words, spoken with a feigned tear in his voice, sound like an evil joke; the Donbass Arena itself has been bombarded repeatedly, not to mention Donetsk as a whole.
And Zelensky and his regime keep playing the same good-bad-evil game. At the same time he tries to awaken patriotism and closes the borders to men: “Stay with me – don’t you dare leave”. At the same time he is touchingly concerned about Kiev and the western regions, and outlaws those who accept humanitarian aid from Russian volunteers in the liberated territories: “Eat from my hands or starve to death”. At the same time it praises the defenders of its state and allows them to bully the civilians of the East, saying that it is their own fault: “You wanted Russia, speak Russian, here is Russia for you, get it”.
This is no longer the regime that the people chose, it is a terrorist rapist, confident in impunity and supported by a Western gang, who is bullying the people who once wanted to be with them, but now, having seen the nature of the regime, simply can no longer escape, held back by their roots, children and parents, the police, the army, the National Security Forces, the SBU.
Yes, Russia has interfered in these relations. Intervened on the side of the people. This intervention put everything in its place. Donetsk and Luhansk were the first to sound the alarm, but now it is clear that Kiev treats the residents of other regions with the same hatred and neglect – not as people, but as property. “It’s not mine and it’s not a pity.” A quarter of the population left, including to Russia, they voted with their feet against the regime. Millions more could not leave – nowhere, forbidden, impossible. A coup is ruled out: any speech will be harshly suppressed as a “Russian provocation”. The only hope is that someone will free the people from the regime.
And we must do it.
Nikita Tretyakov
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